FAQ
Questions, answered honestly.
Everything people ask before joining. Still curious? Write to us.
FAQ
Everything you wanted to ask.
Is this a sugar daddy site?
Yes, honestly so, and sugar mommies too. Gildae connects adults who want relationships where care and generosity are part of the deal, agreed openly by both people.
Will anyone see my face or name?
Not unless you approve it. Dreamer profiles show an alias and blurred photos. Papas and mamas must request an unlock, and only the people you approve can see you. You can revoke access any time.
How do papas and mamas unlock a profile?
In the Gildae web app. Their membership includes unlock credits. Each request goes to the dreamer, who decides whether to reveal their photos and first name.
Is my verification selfie shown to anyone?
No. It's used once to confirm you're a real adult and match your ID, then it's never displayed on your profile.
Is it legal?
Dating someone generous is legal. Paying for sex is not, and it's banned here. Arrangements on Gildae are about companionship, relationships and mentorship. Anyone who treats it otherwise is removed.
Who can be a dreamer?
Any adult aged 18 or over who passes verification, of any gender. Papas and mamas are also verified for identity and means.
Do I have to accept money?
No. Care comes in many forms: mentorship, travel, courses, career intros. You choose what you're comfortable with and can change it any time.
What will my bank statement say?
A neutral company name. Nothing on a statement, receipt or notification mentions Gildae or sugar dating.
What does 'Gildae' mean?
Gildae comes from 'gilded': an everyday life, finished in gold. It's for dreamers, papas and mamas alike.
Your dream is one yes away.
Dreamers join free, forever. Papas and mamas get early verification and a founding badge.