18+ and verified
Every member passes an ID check and a live selfie before they can see or message anyone.
Safety centre
Sweet only works when it's safe.
Every member is verified. Every report is read by a real person. Every safety feature is free.
The rules every member agrees to.
Papas and mamas are vetted
Identity and means are checked. Catfish, fake princes and pretend-single profiles are removed.
No escorts, ever
Gildae is for relationships and mentorship. Offering or paying for sex breaks our rules and the law, and ends in a permanent ban.
Public first dates
Meet somewhere public. Use in-app date check-in and share-my-date to tell a trusted friend where you are.
Money stays respectful
Never send money to someone you haven't met. Never share bank logins. Report anyone asking for 'fees' or 'verification payments'.
One-tap report
Block or report from any screen. A real safety team reviews every report, and serious ones are escalated to the authorities.
First date checklist
Excitement and caution can share a table.
The habits our safety team recommends to every dreamer, papa and mama.
- Meet in a busy public place, and get there on your own.
- Share your plans with a trusted friend using share-my-date.
- Keep chatting in the app until you're comfortable sharing a number.
- Agree expectations before the date, not during it.
- Leave whenever you want. You never owe anyone your time.
- If something feels wrong, report it. You won't be judged.
Something feel wrong?
Report it in the app with one tap, or write to our safety team. Leaked photos, scams, pressure or anyone under 18: we act fast, and you'll never be judged for reporting.
Your dream is one yes away.
Dreamers join free, forever. Papas and mamas get early verification and a founding badge.