No face on your profile
Dreamers join with an alias. Photos stay blurred and your real name is never shown until you decide.
Anonymous by default
Nobody needs to know how you live your good life.
Dreamers don't want classmates, colleagues or family knowing how they fund their happy life. So we made anonymity the default, not a setting.
Privacy pillars
Unlocks need your yes
Papas and mamas request an unlock in the web app. You see who's asking and approve, decline or ignore.
Take it back any time
Changed your mind? Revoke an unlock in one tap and your photos disappear from their screen.
Leaks are traceable
Every unlocked photo carries an invisible watermark tied to the viewer, so screenshots can be traced and acted on.
What papas and mamas see
Before and after you say yes.
Some things are never shown to anyone, ever.
| Detail | Before unlock | After your yes |
|---|---|---|
| Alias | Visible | Visible |
| Age and broad area | Visible | Visible |
| Bio and what you're looking for | Visible | Visible |
| Photos | Hidden | Visible |
| First name | Hidden | Visible |
| Legal name, ID, verification selfie | Hidden | Hidden |
| Phone number, email, exact location | Hidden | Hidden |
Anonymous profile Verified
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Velvet Orchid
24 · Mumbai area · Verified
Final-year design student. Loves slow dinners, art fairs and honest people.
- Mentorship
- Travel
- Monthly support
Illustrative profile. Not a real member.
Discretion, everywhere
Nobody needs to know how you live your good life.
Not your family, not your classmates, not your colleagues. Privacy isn't a setting here. It's the whole product.
Discreet billing
Card statements show a neutral company name. Nothing says Gildae.
Quiet notifications
Push alerts never show names, messages or the word 'sugar'. Just 'You have an update'.
No social links
We never ask for Instagram, Facebook or your contacts. Nobody you know is 'suggested' to you.
Hide from people you know
Block phone numbers or emails you upload. Those people never see you, even anonymously.
City, not street
Location is shown as a broad area. No live location, no distance in metres.
Erase in one tap
Delete your account and your photos, chats and verification data are wiped, not archived.
FAQ
Privacy questions.
Will anyone see my face or name?
Not unless you approve it. Dreamer profiles show an alias and blurred photos. Papas and mamas must request an unlock, and only the people you approve can see you. You can revoke access any time.
How do papas and mamas unlock a profile?
In the Gildae web app. Their membership includes unlock credits. Each request goes to the dreamer, who decides whether to reveal their photos and first name.
Is my verification selfie shown to anyone?
No. It's used once to confirm you're a real adult and match your ID, then it's never displayed on your profile.
What will my bank statement say?
A neutral company name. Nothing on a statement, receipt or notification mentions Gildae or sugar dating.
Stay anonymous. Live well.
Dreamers join free, forever. Papas and mamas get early verification and a founding badge.