How it works
Two sides. One fairy tale. Zero exposure.
Dreamers stay anonymous in the app. Papas and mamas unlock profiles in the web app. Nothing is revealed without a yes.
Your path
From hello to happily arranged.
Sugar babies
Dreamers
- 1
Verify privately
A quick ID check and selfie confirm you're 18+ and real. The selfie is never shown.
- 2
Build your anonymous profile
Alias, broad area, a short bio, what you're looking for and blurred photos.
- 3
Receive unlock requests
Verified papas and mamas send requests with a note. Approve the ones who feel right.
- 4
Meet on your terms
Chat in-app, meet somewhere public, and agree the arrangement before anything else.
Sugar daddies and mommies
Papas & mamas
- 1
Verify identity and means
ID, a selfie and a light check of means. Only verified papas can request unlocks.
- 2
Write an honest intro
Who you are, what you enjoy, and the kind of care you're glad to give.
- 3
Browse and request
Explore anonymous profiles. Request an unlock with a thoughtful note.
- 4
Be generous, be kind
Approved? Chat, meet in public, agree the arrangement, and keep your word.
How unlocking works
Papas and mamas unlock. Dreamers decide.
Profiles are anonymous on the app. Unlocks happen in the Gildae web app, and every one needs the dreamer's yes.
01
Browse anonymously
Papas and mamas see aliases, a short bio, what each dreamer is looking for and blurred photos. Nothing more.
02
Request an unlock
Like a profile? Send an unlock request from the web app with a short note. Each request uses one unlock credit.
03
The dreamer decides
She or he sees your verified profile and your note, then approves, declines or simply ignores it.
04
Reveal and talk
Approved? Photos and first name appear for you only. Chat in-app, plan a public first date, agree the arrangement.
Trading time with care
Build an arrangement that feels like yours.
Pick what you'd share and what you'd love in return. Every match starts on the same page, so nobody is surprised later.
FAQ
Honest answers, sweetly.
Will anyone see my face or name?
Not unless you approve it. Dreamer profiles show an alias and blurred photos. Papas and mamas must request an unlock, and only the people you approve can see you. You can revoke access any time.
How do papas and mamas unlock a profile?
In the Gildae web app. Their membership includes unlock credits. Each request goes to the dreamer, who decides whether to reveal their photos and first name.
Is my verification selfie shown to anyone?
No. It's used once to confirm you're a real adult and match your ID, then it's never displayed on your profile.
Is it legal?
Dating someone generous is legal. Paying for sex is not, and it's banned here. Arrangements on Gildae are about companionship, relationships and mentorship. Anyone who treats it otherwise is removed.
Who can be a dreamer?
Any adult aged 18 or over who passes verification, of any gender. Papas and mamas are also verified for identity and means.
Do I have to accept money?
No. Care comes in many forms: mentorship, travel, courses, career intros. You choose what you're comfortable with and can change it any time.
Your dream is one yes away.
Dreamers join free, forever. Papas and mamas get early verification and a founding badge.