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An alias, not your name
Pick any name you like. Your legal name stays with our verification partner, never on your profile.
For dreamers · always free
Live the good life. Stay anonymous.
You deserve care, comfort and someone who invests in your dreams. You also deserve to keep it to yourself. On Gildae, nobody sees your face until you say so.
Why Gildae
Built around your privacy, not their curiosity.
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Blurred until you approve
Your photos are blurred for everyone. Only papas and mamas you approve can see them.
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See who's asking first
Every unlock request shows their verified profile, reviews and a note. Then you decide.
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Revoke any time
One tap removes your photos from anyone's view, even after an approval.
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Hide from people you know
Upload contacts you want to avoid. They will never see you on Gildae.
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Free, forever
Dreamers never pay. No premium tier for safety, no paywall on privacy.
Getting started
From alias to arrangement.
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Verify privately
A quick ID check and selfie confirm you're 18+ and real. The selfie is never shown.
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Build your anonymous profile
Alias, broad area, a short bio, what you're looking for and blurred photos.
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Receive unlock requests
Verified papas and mamas send requests with a note. Approve the ones who feel right.
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Meet on your terms
Chat in-app, meet somewhere public, and agree the arrangement before anything else.
“Your story is yours. How you fund your studies, your travel or your happy life is nobody's business but yours.”
Anonymous by default
Your face stays yours. Until you say otherwise.
Dreamers don't want the world knowing how they fund their good life. So on Gildae, nobody does.
No face on your profile
Dreamers join with an alias. Photos stay blurred and your real name is never shown until you decide.
Unlocks need your yes
Papas and mamas request an unlock in the web app. You see who's asking and approve, decline or ignore.
Take it back any time
Changed your mind? Revoke an unlock in one tap and your photos disappear from their screen.
Leaks are traceable
Every unlocked photo carries an invisible watermark tied to the viewer, so screenshots can be traced and acted on.
FAQ
Honest answers, sweetly.
Is this a sugar daddy site?
Yes, honestly so, and sugar mommies too. Gildae connects adults who want relationships where care and generosity are part of the deal, agreed openly by both people.
Will anyone see my face or name?
Not unless you approve it. Dreamer profiles show an alias and blurred photos. Papas and mamas must request an unlock, and only the people you approve can see you. You can revoke access any time.
How do papas and mamas unlock a profile?
In the Gildae web app. Their membership includes unlock credits. Each request goes to the dreamer, who decides whether to reveal their photos and first name.
Is my verification selfie shown to anyone?
No. It's used once to confirm you're a real adult and match your ID, then it's never displayed on your profile.
Is it legal?
Dating someone generous is legal. Paying for sex is not, and it's banned here. Arrangements on Gildae are about companionship, relationships and mentorship. Anyone who treats it otherwise is removed.
Who can be a dreamer?
Any adult aged 18 or over who passes verification, of any gender. Papas and mamas are also verified for identity and means.
Your dream is one yes away.
Dreamers join free, forever. Papas and mamas get early verification and a founding badge.